Campus Safety & Keep Her Safe

Shelly Humbach • August 10, 2017

Campus safety. This is a topic of growing concern for the families I work with, especially parents of daughters. Having three of my own, I get it. In fact, I find myself consistently researching the current status of college campuses with regard to what they are doing to combat this very real and dangerous issue. To be clear, one in five women are sexually assaulted in college , according to the most recent research.

There are far too many national news stories of campus sex assault. Often the allegations involve a frat brother or an athlete. The 2016 Stanford swimmer case was for me, particularly disturbing as the perpetrator was assaulting an unconscious female. Who does that? Indeed, this level of sick behavior is shocking, unconscionable and leaves me feeling horrified and helpless.

My focus is about taking real and affective action to end campus rape and I need answers and guidance. Introducing Keep Her Safe, a 501c3 not for profit organization whose purpose is to inform and educate parents so they can make demands of college administrations to effect positive change and ultimately end campus sex assault.

I’ve always told my girls to be smart, not scared and Keep Her Safe embodies this concept. Keep Her Safe is about empowering us to go from concerned spectators to proactive parents.

College should be about learning, growing and safe, self-discovery. Check out Keep Her Safe . Get involved. Let’s demand change and be part of the solution to campus rape. Let’s be smart, not scared.

http://www.keephersafe.org/college-orientation-campus-sexual-assault-prevention/

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In June, I hosted my annual Senior Essay Writing Workshop. This was the first in-person workshop since 2019. I bet you can guess why. I was elated to meet my students face-to-face after months, even years, of connecting through the screen. Imagine my surprise at their height, super-smiles, and warm laughter. Dang, it was wonderful. So, essentially, all my in-state seniors gather at my house for a three-hour intensive workshop on crafting a killer college essay. As I was preparing for the event, it occurred to me that I might be in competition with their PHONE. Classic directness (this is probably a character flaw) led me to inform my students and their parents, in advance, that this would be a no-phone gathering. My messaging went something like this, Important: Phones are placed in a basket at the door and retrieved at noon. No exceptions. Parents: If you need to reach your student during the workshop, text me directly at **********. Now, I am fully on board with the phone-free movement. I support it, advocate for it, and live it (I brilliantly quit all personal media last November). And I thought: my event, my rules. I was a little concerned about how this announcement would land. Turns out my concern was mainly about the parents. The kids? Not so much. In fact, research indicates that students crave phone-free learning environments. Suffice to say, the workshop was a smashing success. Not a single student pushed back against the policy. One poor soul forgot to retrieve her phone and left it sitting all alone in the basket. Not to worry, though. She didn’t get far before turning back to grab it. Here’s the truth: We don’t have to bow down to every technological whim or societal pressure. As adults, we know the phone is a problem, and it’s our job to foster healthy, happy individuals. So let's keep this momentum going. As Maya Angelou wisely said, “When you know better, do better.”
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