Summer Break – Please Stay A Little Longer…
Shelly Humbach • August 17, 2017
Every year, I find myself hanging on to the last precious days of summer break, a feeling deeply rooted both in my childhood and the strong desire to spend time with my kids. They are now 25, 22 and 18 and I still want just a little more time.
This summer “stronghold” began when I was a little girl. I grew up in the most awesome neighborhood that sported a fort/make-out shack, a pond, complete with Garter snakes and horse stables. Can you imagine a more fantastic playground? Memories of riding my horse from sun up until sun down remain vivid, showing up in my dreams, from time to time. The smell of sweet clover, or the ripples of high water in the Highland Canal evoke surreal flashbacks.
As time marches on, this inevitable desire to make summer last forever lingers. And regardless of the age and stage of my children, I simply covet the summertime feeling of an easier schedule, occasional sleeping in and late nights on the deck.
As August comes to a close, I cannot fight back the hint of nostalgia, even sadness. It happens every year and I suspect and hope it will happen every year hereafter.
Here’s to a spectacular Indian summer. I hope you’ll find something useful in this post and maybe even a tip or two to ease that “Back-To-School” feeling.
My wish is for health, happiness and maybe even a little world peace.
Wait for it……they should be having fun.
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