One More Thing Before You Go
Lea Naiz • May 10, 2013
Top three pieces of advice for College-Bound Freshman
- BACK UP YOUR COMPUTER. I don’t care how you do it, just do it. Whether you use the old fashioned external drive, CD’s, DVD’s, Flash drives, a monthly internet service or the cloud thing, back it up.
- Girls – you truly do not need every article of clothing that currently resides in your parent’s house. Trust me on this. First, all this clothing will not, ever, fit in your dorm closet and 2, living in a dorm with dozens if not hundreds of other girls expands your wardrobe, significantly. Boys – pack more than one pair of shorts, one pair of jeans and a couple of shirts.
- Call you mother/father/guardian. If this or these people busted their butts to help launch you out the door, have enough respect and courtesy to check in and let them know how you’re doing. Remember, one day, you too will launch your kid and it isn’t easy.

In June, I hosted my annual Senior Essay Writing Workshop. This was the first in-person workshop since 2019. I bet you can guess why. I was elated to meet my students face-to-face after months, even years, of connecting through the screen. Imagine my surprise at their height, super-smiles, and warm laughter. Dang, it was wonderful. So, essentially, all my in-state seniors gather at my house for a three-hour intensive workshop on crafting a killer college essay. As I was preparing for the event, it occurred to me that I might be in competition with their PHONE. Classic directness (this is probably a character flaw) led me to inform my students and their parents, in advance, that this would be a no-phone gathering. My messaging went something like this, Important: Phones are placed in a basket at the door and retrieved at noon. No exceptions. Parents: If you need to reach your student during the workshop, text me directly at **********. Now, I am fully on board with the phone-free movement. I support it, advocate for it, and live it (I brilliantly quit all personal media last November). And I thought: my event, my rules. I was a little concerned about how this announcement would land. Turns out my concern was mainly about the parents. The kids? Not so much. In fact, research indicates that students crave phone-free learning environments. Suffice to say, the workshop was a smashing success. Not a single student pushed back against the policy. One poor soul forgot to retrieve her phone and left it sitting all alone in the basket. Not to worry, though. She didn’t get far before turning back to grab it. Here’s the truth: We don’t have to bow down to every technological whim or societal pressure. As adults, we know the phone is a problem, and it’s our job to foster healthy, happy individuals. So let's keep this momentum going. As Maya Angelou wisely said, “When you know better, do better.”

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